
When someone dies, it can cause emotional pain for those close to them.
Those left behind become overwhelmed and suppressed by grief.
They will need your support.
As the outsider, you are concerned about adding to this person’s pain and not wanting to say the wrong thing, which might be deemed insensitive.
Usually, people who suffer grief welcome your support and that you expressed it, rather than the words on a card – it pays to be mindful.
But, how do you correctly express condolences to someone who has lost a loved one?
This can be a tricky task.
However, with the right words, some gracefulness, and a bouquet of funeral flowers, it can be done right. Continue reading as we explore helpful ideas of what to say on funeral flowers.
What to Say on Funeral Flowers

Flowers are a wonderful way to convey our emotions, love and support.
Different flowers represent different meanings. However, a gorgeous bouquet can be the perfect gift to convey condolences.
While this might be the case, you never want to send only flowers.
Personalizing the card, with a sympathy message, goes a long way in letting them know you care.
But what to say on funeral flowers to show sympathy?
First, before ordering the funeral flowers or going to a flower shop, think about what you will write on the sympathy card. Often, people are surprised or unprepared.
Just adding “With Love” or “With Sympathy” can seem impersonal.
All you need are a few lines of personal sentiment.
General Sympathy Messages for Funeral Flowers:
- 1I wish for you, kind recollections filled with fondness, compassionate friends, and benevolence to relieve your sorrow. I trust this bouquet reminds you that you are dear to my heart and in my prayers.
- 2In some small way, I pray these flowers express the compassion and grief we have for you in this time of loss. With genuine compassion, [name].
- 3These flowers represent my deepest condolences and sympathy for your sadness.
- 4It is with a sincerity that I express my love and support to you and your family in this time.
- 5May you have peace, blessings, and love in this time of grief. Our prayers are with you.
- 6I wish for you, eternal comfort, peace, and compassion to alleviate your sadness.
- 7Although I am far away, just know that my prayers, love, and support are always with you.
- 8May you have love, peace, and kindness in this season. My prayers are with you.
- 9Words cannot express the love and sympathy that we feel in this time. You are in my thoughts.
- 10May you have courage, strength and compassion during your time of mourning. Our prayers and love are with you.
Personalized Sympathy Messages for Funeral Flowers
When you think about what to write on funeral flowers, sending personalized messages are especially thoughtful. Adding the deceased name or a fond memory might bring a smile to the mourners face.
Here are a few suggestions:
- 1[Name of deceased] was a loyal friend, kind human being and a gentle soul. He will always live on in our hearts.
- 2There are no words that can express the sadness we now feel because [name of deceased] has gone home. You are in our prayers continually.
- 3[Name of deceased] was a joy and beacon in our lives. He brought hope and loved freely. We will remember him forever.
- 4May memories of [name of deceased] and how he touched our lives, abound with joy in your heart.
- 5[Name of deceased] was a special person and it was a blessing to have known him.
Simple Sympathy Messages for Funeral Flowers
If you prefer to add just a few words, here are some suggestions. This is a simplistic approach on what to say on funeral flowers.
- 1Please accept my sincere sympathy.
- 2Our thoughts are with you during this time.
- 3Know that we love you and our prayers are with you.
- 4With deepest sympathy and love, [name].
- 5I send thoughts of peace, hope, and love to your heart. With deepest sympathy, [name].
- 6I will be praying for you and your family.
- 7I wish for you much love and compassion.
- 8[Name of deceased] was such a wonderful friend.
- 9My prayers are with you.
- 10May happy memories of [name of deceased] abound.
Show How Much You Care in a Personal, More Sincere Way

Expressing your love and support to someone who is grieving is always welcomed.
Sending flowers and adding a sympathy message would be a great way to show that you care. It lets the person know that they are not alone and that they are in someone’s thoughts and prayers.
When you think about what to write on funeral flowers, remember to be careful with your words and add personalized touches if you can.
It helps a lot when you mentioned how adding a nice memory to your sympathy flowers can help cheer up the mourner. My friend’s father has recently passed away, and I would like to do something to let her know that I care. Maybe getting some sympathy flowers would be able to help her show that I am sorry for her loss.
Hi Darrien. Thanks so much for commenting. I’m so sorry about your friend’s father passing away. Yes, sending even a plant or bamboo can be nice as sympathy flowers. The personal note from you just comes from your heart. Write something that you feel is personal. Trust your heart to “know” the right words. Be genuine. Be sincere. Be loving and kind. Hold the space for them to grieve, letting them know you care. A heartfelt message can be felt in the heart, so listen to your inner guidance. I’m happy to help you write something if you wish.